I never knew how important our Thanksgiving

holiday was until five years ago when I spent the day by myself. I had to close up at the coffee shop and everyone I knew had plans or was out of town. I didn't think it mattered because, growing up, I didn't like food that much, I was
not thankful for being forced to eat food I was supposed to be grateful for, and there were no presents or candy. The only redeeming aspect was pumpkin pie and canned cranberry sauce (
schloop!). I thought of Thanksgiving as, forgive me, what
Erin Ryan calls "the red-headed step child of the holiday season."
That is, until I came home to a cold, empty house. I didn't know what to do with myself so I suited up and jogged down the street with my surf board, feeling a little daring and electrified for ditching holiday tradition and facing a 15 foot swell that churned chocolatey water.
By the time I reached the cliffs I stood overlooking Capitola and I thought, "this just isn't right."
By far my favorite Thanksgiving Day was when I was seven.
My sister does not share my warm sentiment for this particular occassion. She, in fact, shudders and cringes at the childhood memory. I mentioned before that I didn't like food, but that didn't include TV dinners, probably because TV dinners are not actually food. So that year, we were visiting Dad and he asked us, "What would you like to have for Thanksgiving?"
I said, "Chicken TV DINNER!"
Heather said, "Thanksgiving dinner."
At the time, Dad was living in a tiny town in a trailer (on wheels), and his kitchenette didn't have an oven large enough for a turkey. TV dinners it was! I remember gnawing on a chicken leg while watching my favorite movie,
Dirty Rotten Scoundrels, and sitting with Heather in the only piece of furniture that would fit in the trailer, a La-Z-Boy armchair, while Dad leaned against the wall with his TV dinner, and I wondered how I managed to get out of the traditional feast so easily. I was truly thankful and content, completely oblivious to my sister pouting next to me. Afterwards, to my resplendent amazement, he baked chocolate chip cookies. Meanwhile, my mom was in another town with some friends, eating turkey and stuffing and yams, and I was secretly, wickedly, glad I wasn't there.
I still get a warm, fuzzy feeling when I watch
Dirty Rotten Scoundrels, although Heather prefers that I don't reminisce, or really even talk about that holiday in her presence.
This year, if anyone is spending Thanksgiving alone you're welcome to join me and Patrick. I promise I won't serve TV dinners or force you to watch Steve Martin movies.
For now, I'll leave you with some reminders of how much we have to be thankful for:
"We always thank God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, when we pray for you, … and
joyfully giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of the saints in the kingdom of light. For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins." - Colossians 1:3,12-14
"For this reason,
ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers." - Ephesians 1:15-16
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Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God." - 2 Corinthians 1:3-4
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Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise - the fruit of lips that confess his name. And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased." - Hebrews 13:15-16
"Be joyful always; pray continually;
give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." - I Thessalonians 5:16-18
"Therefore,
since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe, for our 'God is a consuming fire.'" - Hebrews 12:28-29
"Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." - Philippians 4:4-7